Tomorrow I will transform myself again. I’m going to sort out my eyebrows; look into funding and getting a tattoo; apply for yet another job (job hunt is failing); customise the majority of my clothes; find a new way of doing my make up & hair; take control of my life and get the fuck over recent events.

• Never exceed a 2nd chance with someone; if they make the same mistake more than once, the likelihood is they will never change.
• Following on from this: Getting back together with an ex is essentially a bad idea if they hurt you more than once. It drags up old feelings that should stay buried, and as much as people say they’ve changed the temptation is always there and soon you find out that they haven’t.
• Look after number one. Yourself, because not many other people will put you above their own interests.
• If you find someone who does put you above their own interests, don’t let them go they’re a rare gem.
• Always go 50/50 with everyone. If they don’t meet you halfway don’t budge. They’re not worth it.
• Open up. Great things can come into your life if you let them. Be open to different possibilities and view points.
• Live neither in the past, present or future; all 3 are equally as important. Learn from your past, have fun in your present but prepare for your future.
• Fail to prepare, prepare to fail.
• Unfortunately looks are important, not just to others but if you look good you feel good. Make a bit of extra effort on the days you feel down for a cheeky confidence boost.
• Two wrongs definitely don’t make a right; it makes two wrongs. Learn your math.
• Stress is often caused by letting things pile up on top of each other, organise your life to keep everything under control.
• Know that the human mind can over come the most horrific things. I read an interview with a survivor of the Russian school siege, she want on to University and to meet the love of her life. It is possible to move on from things in time.
• A break up is not the end of the world, 99% of people will go through it in their life time and 99% of people do not die from heartbreak.
• Be kind to others even if they are not kind to you, purely so you and others can say you’re the better person in the situation.
• Life is too short to hold onto grudges, hate makes for an angry person. Anger restricts happiness.
• Try everything once, you don’t have to do it again if you don’t like it.
• Not everyone thinks and feels the same way you do, it’s about compromise and finding common ground with someone. You won’t always get your own way and the sooner you learn that the easier it is.
• If someone makes you un-happy, what the hell is the point in hanging around?!
• A man is recognised by his dignity, achievements and strength of heart, not by the list of girls he has slept with.
• Face things, if you numb it the pain only increases when you are finally forced to deal with it.
• Eat healthy, it does actually make you feel better.
• Positive people make a positive person.
• Family are important, blood is thicker than water.
• Be yourself. Be comfortable in your own skin.

Unfortunately, I’d give anything to be back in Calpe with Danza Kuduro and my beautifuls.